It’s worth watching, but not for the reasons you might think

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The first season of Emily in Paris came out on Netflix in Sept 2020. The premise: a young woman, Emily Cooper, is offered a job in Paris when her employer buys out a French marketing company, Savoir. Though she doesn’t speak a word of French, and her boyfriend protests, Emily accepts.

The show is entertaining, but Emily (Lily Collins) starts committing faux pas soon after she lands. For example, she tries to open the wrong apartment door because she doesn’t understand how French buildings are set up. She quickly meets her boss and co-workers, who are taken aback that she…

When they don’t write.

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In 2020, I went from someone who wrote on Medium several times a week or month, to maybe once a month. The reasons were both personal and pandemical. OK, “pandemical” not a word, but maybe it should be.

My life was upended, and all my priorities for writing changed. Boston was one of the first cities to get hit hard. I was astonished when people asked, “Does anyone know someone who died of Covid-19?” By May, I could name a dozen.

Writing fell to the wayside. Even if I earned extra money, what was I going to do with it…

Accessible on your phone and computer

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For the longest time, I have been trying to compile a resource of all the recipes I use. I kept a few on my computer and printed them out, but it’s hard to keep up, because I bake a lot. I usually end up flipping through cookbooks or searching through bookmarks of online recipes — not the most efficient process.

Online recipes can be great, except for those 8,000 words and half a dozen photos you have to scroll past before you get to the recipe. And what if the site deletes it? It’s nice to have backups. …

Things your cat (or you) will enjoy

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Whether you recently adopted a new cat or are looking to upgrade your cat’s stuff, here is a guide for stuff that simply works. I love things that are durable, rather than disposable, and that’s easy to get with cat gear.

I have had cats for 6 years now and spent roughly 1 million (or so it seemed) hours with them from working from home this past year, so here’s what works for me. (None of these items are sponsored.)

A second litter box

It’s recommended that you have at least one litter box per cat. I have the kind with a hood made…

And there’s no end in sight

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Seven months. That’s how long it has been since the pandemic was declared, and I felt every minute of it.

Seven months of social distancing, mask-wearing, and Google Duo chats instead of visits to family. I was telling someone today, “I just want to eat in a restaurant — indoors — and then go see a new movie in a theater.” It doesn’t sound like a big ask, but I can’t. I’m stuck in my home.

I feel like a kid in the backseat, yelling, “Are we there yet?”

We are not there yet.

In the U.S., we are still…

Uncovering the benefits of remote learning

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With Covid-19 a persistent threat in the U.S., online learning is here to stay for the foreseeable future. But what was once envisioned as a last resort — sending kids home with a laptop and hoping for the best—has shown some surprising benefits.

Remote learning offers not only flexibility for kids, but convenience and comfort. I recently saw a Twitter thread about a teacher telling a child he could not eat a snack while distance learning in his own home. His mother insisted that the hungry child be allowed to eat.

In elementary school, I was given 15 minutes to…

What’s the big deal?

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There are plenty of traditions when it comes to a wedding. White dress? Check. Cake? Of course. Changing my last name? Not so fast.

When I was a kid, I always assumed I’d change my last name to my husband’s. It was expected, after all. Teachers would marry and go from “Miss Smith” to “Mrs. Jones” over the summer. Every woman in my family changed her last name when she married.

But a few years into my career, I realized I liked my name the way it was. I didn’t see the appeal of erasing my old identity.

A friend…

Acronyms optional

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Until now, I have spent my entire adult life trying not to get pregnant, so it is a complete 180 to say I went off birth control.

How did this happen? The stars aligned: Our debt finally went down, not up. And more importantly, I finally felt ready.

Other factors are at play: my ob-gyn pointing out that my age is getting close to 35. My parents and in-laws aren’t getting any younger, either, and I want my kid to know all of his or her grandparents — something I didn’t get to experience.

I also made it no secret…

An informal analysis of promises

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When I was young, I had to rely on recipe books or magazine clippings for my baking. Nowadays, there is an endless assortment of recipes online. You can find a recipe for anything. The question is: can you trust them to be good?

I have learned that there are often tiny clues that an online recipe may turn out delicious, or disgusting. I once tried to bake a cantaloupe pie (learn from my mistake and … don’t) after a writer insisted her boyfriend ate a piece and said it was good. …

Staying on track, no matter what

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Many writers start projects with a lot of enthusiasm, but quickly become discouraged or disinterested. They may feel like giving up if no one seems to be reading their work, if they can’t get published right away, or they don’t make a lot of money.

Achieving your writing goals takes planning and determination. Here are a few methods you can use to make sure you stay on track.

Write your goals down.

A study found that people are more likely to complete goals if they write them down. Writing down your goals helps you refine them, and makes them more concrete.

Break your goals into steps.

“Write a book”…

Ellie Daforge

Article writer, aspiring YA novelist & health scientist.

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